just checked my sent messages and it was not there. I remember doing one, maybe forgot to hit send. whatever the case, sorry about that. was just getting frustrated and now a bit of embarrassment too.
as far as that minus and plus sign, it turned out it was related to that. It showed the minus with no categories. so I did a plus then did the minus again and it worked. trying to figured out what caused the problem since it happened only after logging in. maybe a corrupted temp file on my end though it does not make sense with it happening to both firefox and chrome. oh well, just another reason to call today black friday.
thanks for the lead.