I have update (and would like to thank those who replied with thoughts to help... Very kind of you), that will help explain what was happening and what is currently happening.
When I set up the 2 particular rooms with their own echo dots and Hue White Bulbs, I set them up as the room by the persons name Steve's room and Ruby's room, and named the bulbs Steves light and Ruby's light respectively... This worked without problems for months... no problem whatsoever. Could tell any echo in the house "Alexa, turn on Steve's/Ruby's Light" and get perfect response. So there's how things have been for a while now.
I think it was last week, when the Hue update hit that gave room set-up where you can do some crap with your TV and Hue Bulbs so that all the lights respond to your viewing material... not interested, but I knew it came out and I knew I would ignore it... I read about it a little and decided I had already made the choice that makes the most sense, the decision to not use that feature within the Hue System... Seems like that should keep things Status Quo... or at least I thought it did...
evidently, in the same time frame, Amazon rolled out a fairly big update that had little explanation and lots of feature changes. one of them was the ability to set up Single Echo units to recognize what room you're in and give you the ability to walk into just about any room in your home that has an echo device and say "Alexa, turn on lights" and Alexa would activate the lights in the room you're "grouped to" or whatever... Still sounds like a cool feature... I may give that a try soon as well, but if they keep jacking up the already functional things... I may go Apple when they release their Home Pod. Another feature evidently is to automatically load Scenes for every damn light you own, if there is a room named and set up in the HUE app. It somehow sees what Hue has for a list and copies the whole thing to your Alexa App, and makes rooms for any rooms you had set up in Hue that were not set up as separate groups on Alexa app... With an explanation of it and a guide to help you walk through the changes and the new processes, It might not be such a pain, but without these things it's a mess at best.
So... Basically I figured out (since there is only one light in each of the rooms I had problems with) I could eliminate the rooms in the Hue App, and let Alexa discover devices and it wouldn't identify the rooms any more and now functions as I had it set up to begin with. Now I can tell you the exact reason I had the problem, and how to avoid it.
NEVER SET UP A ROOM AND A HUE BULB WITH THE SAME NAME AS ONE ANOTHER - That's where I made the mistake that was hard to identify, as it wasn't a problem until Alexa started automatically setting up scenes and collecting room data from the Hue App.